Our Contract

Some of my readers have asked me to share my contract with them, so I am including the contract here. A few things about this contract:

1. Swami and I used a template we found online and changed it to fit our needs
2. This may or may not work for any readers. Please use at your own risk
3. None of the provisions in this contract are legally enforceable. This is just so that Swami and I knew what to expect and things were laid out clearly
4. Some of the provisions in this contract are unique to our situation and may not have any relevance to you. 
5. If you find this contract helpful or use portions of it, My Swami requests that you let me know, just for our curiosity
6. Comments are always welcome

Swami /Daasi CONTRACT

Preamble

Swami K****** and Daasi D******* are bound together for life thru their wedding. Swami loves his Daasi dearly and only wishes the very best for her and promises to cherish and love her till his last breath. Daasi D******* has been an extraordinary wife and lover to her Swami and has given her Swami a beautiful family. In order to better define the boundaries, show the trust they hold towards each other  and better define how their Swami/Daasi relationship will operate, Swami K****** and Daasi D******* have entered into the following agreement.

Article One: CONTROL

Section One: Swami must have total control over his Daasi for this Swami/Daasi relationship to function and be beneficial to both. Swami acknowledges that his Daasi has an option to say no, and face a consequential punishment instead. Swami will let his Daasi as he sees fit handle daily life and situations without coming to him for approval on every small detail. Daasi must realize that only through giving herself to her Swami can she truly be happy and loved. Daasi must trust her Swami completely. She must freely give her heart, mind, and body to her Swami.

Section Two: Swami and Daasi must also respect each other's job and career and never do anything to risk that. Swami must also respect Daasi's right to be a Daasi in private and not make her lose face with family, friends, co-workers, neighbors, and such. In essence this relationship must remain as private as possible for Daasi’s sake.

Section Three: Swami and Daasi must keep in mind the spirit of the life style, namely that a loving marriage full of happiness, friendship, and love will be the basis of this relationship. The Swami/Daasi relationship must stay in tact for duration of their lives and will not stop at any age.

Section Four: Swami must not mis-use this control in any way, Daasi is free to object to a task, practice, or punishment. But only after the offense has occurred. (Except for the NO-GO’s that have been pre-agreed upon in this contract.)

Article Two: Punishments

Section One: Swami has to exercise the ability to lovingly retain the control that his Daasi must give over to him. As such punishments must be in place to deal with situations when Daasi decides for whatever reason that her will supersedes that of her Swami.

Section Two: Punishments must be at the discretion of Swami. However Swami should keep in mind that punishing for the fun of punishing can kill the spirit of the Swami/Daasi relationship. However Daasi should realize that during the first Break-In year, punishing will be fairly normal as her Swami and she adjust to the life-style. Daasi may sometimes decide to opt for the punishment instead of obeying her Swami's order. But Daasi should keep in mind that not following her Swami's orders on a regular basis, does kill the spirit of the Swami/Daasi relationship.

Article Three: NO-GO’s and Hard Limits 

Section One:A NO- GO is a term that refers to things that BOTH Swami and Daasi agree will not be on the table to explore. These are the agreed upon No-Go’s,

a)    No Bringing of Blood, Blood Play.

b)    No intimidation with knives, guns, weapons, plastic snakes.

c)     No Poop play at all.

d)    No Bestiality

e)    No Bringing in outside people, unless discussed and agreed to by both preivously

f)      No extremely risky physical or illegal behavior

g)    No Permanent marks, except for tattoos that both Swami and Daasi agree to. 

Section Two: Hard Limits is a term to describe things that Daasi would rather not do or is uncomfortable doing at the moment. Swami has the right to either do these things or chose not to do them. He might even save them for a level 2 or level 3 punishment. But Swami knows that Daasi is uncomfortable in these areas and will try to keep the Daasi’s feelings in consideration. Hard Limits are as follows;

a)    Frightening with rubber snakes

b)    Tickle torture

All other items must be explored at least twice before they can be added to this list. Since Daasi is not allowed to have any say on what Swami can do with his property, she may not unilaterally add to this list. She must beseech her Swami to listen to her feelings and appeal to him. He has final say on what get's added to the Hard Limits list

Article Four: Punishment Levels

Section One: It is not in the Spirit of the life style to write down all of the punishments that may be given to a Daasi for disobedience or training. Not knowing is part of the beauty of being punished by Swami but there will be three levels of punishment. They are listed below.

      I.          Level One: Light punishment that could include a basic task that Daasi must complete that might make her feel slightly self-conscious or light pain might also be inflicted. Some examples of punishment include cold shower, standing in corner facing the wall and cleaning the toilet with a toothbrush.

    II.          Level Two: A harsher punishment that could include a heavier task that would make Daasi feel more self conscious or humiliated. Moderate pain may also be inflicted. Some examples of punishment include, sleeping on the cold bathroom floor at night, kneeling on tiled floor or on uncooked rice or pebbles, being bound and tickled.

  III.          Level Three: The greatest and harshest punishment. This punishment will give great humiliation to Daasi. or give severe pain. Pain will most likely be given through three to five hard spankings with a cane, but other methods may also be used. Chores might include peeing when bladder is really full on the tiled floor  and cleaning it out on knees with rag

ARTICLE 5: CONDUCT EXPECTATIONS for Daasi.

These are rules of conduct expected from Daasi except where such activity would be considered illegal or dangerous . Any violations of said rules will subject Daasi to the level of punishment noted .

1.     Daasi will not use her Swami's name when addressing him in private. She will use one of the following: Master, Swami, Maalik, Prabhu or Parameshwar. While in public Daasi may choose to use one of the above at her discretion or may use any one of these in addition: Aap. (Punishment for violation: Level 1)

2.     Daasi will never use Tu, Tum, Tera, or any terms to show disrespect to her Swami either in private or public under any circumstances specially in anger. Absolutely no exceptions are allowed(Punishment for violation: Level 2)

3.     Daasi will begin her day in the morning by kissing her Swami's feet before any other activity and end the day in bed by doing the same. (Punishment for violation: Level 1)

4.     Daasi will never wear any piece of clothing to bed unless said piece of clothing is approved by Swami in advance. Only Swami can approve clothing. Approval must be  taken each night and all pieces of clothing must be explicitly approved by Swami. Only exception to this rule is when Daasi has her periods. During such times Daasi may wear panties and lingerie to bed without preapproval. After Master has fallen asleep, Daasi may add on some clothing if she is feeling uncomfortably cold provided it is on Swami's approved list (Punishment on violation: Level 3)

5.     Daasi will keep her body free of hair at all times. She must use waxing for all areas except her pubic areas, where she may shave at her discretion or wax. Daasi must take special care that her armpits and pubic regions are free of hair at all times. (Punishment for violation: Level 2)

6.     Daasi acknowledges that her body belongs to her Swami She will allow Swami to freely touch her body at any time and in any way he pleases in private (Punishment for violation: Level 2)

7.     Daasi will allow Swami to photograph her whenever he desires with or without clothes and use said images any way he sees fit as long as her privacy is protected and her job is not put in jeopardy(Punishment for violation: Level 2).

8.     Daasi will allow her Swami to convey his effections in public through physical contact as long as such contact is not considered obscene (Punishment for violation: Level 1)

9.     Daasi will consent to sexual activity, whenever desired by Swami (Punishment for violation: Level 2)

10. Daasi will consent to engage in graphic and explicit sexual conversations via chat, text or video with Swami whenever he requests (Punishment for violation: Level 2)

11. Daasi will allow Swami to enter any or all of her holes in any order during sex with his penis, any other part of his body or a sexual toy (Punishment for violation: Level 3)

12. Daasi will allow Swami to come in any of her holes or any part of her body as he desires. If Swami comes in her mouth, Daasi will always swallow unless requested otherwise by Swami. (Punishment for violation: Level 3)

13. Daasi will not play with herself sexually and will not let herself orgasm without first asking for and receiving permission from Swami. (Punishment for violation: Level 1)

14. Daasi will allow Swami to urinate on any part of her body including in her mouth as part of sexual play. If Swami wants, Daasi will drink up to 8oz of his urine provided it is fresh (Punishment for violation: Level 1)

15. Daasi is allowed to fast up to 2 times a week during the day as part of religious observances as long as she eats at least one complete meal during the evening. For any additional fasts, Daasi must first seek and obtain Swami's permission. (Punishment for violation: Level 2)

16. Daasi will only begin her meal after Swami has started or completed his meal. If Daasi is eating in private after Swami has completed his meal she will eat out of the same plate before it is washed, unless the plate has had any meat placed on it(Punishment for violation: Level 1)

17. Daasi will inform Swami of her whereabouts at least every hour when they are not together and will ensure that she is reachable by either phone, text, chat or thru other agreed form of communication during waking hours (Punishment for violation: Level 1).

18. Whenever possible Daasi will seek out and sit near her Swami when they are both seated in public. When possible she will sit on the floor next to Swami and keep his feet on her lap and caress his feet with her hands (Punishment for violation: Level 1).

19. When in public, Daasi will serve Swami with attention and bring him his food and drinks and remove his used plates and glasses unless expressly excused from such services by him (Punishment for violation: Level 1)

20. Daasi will consent to playing such games as Swami requires in public that will allow Swami to secretly enjoy parts of her body. Examples of such games include but are not limited to the following: showing off her clean armpits at regular intervals to him, crossing and uncrossing her legs when wearing skirts, licking her lips when their eyes are locked etc (Punishment for violation: Level 1)

21. Daasi will consent to being restrained with blindfolds, ropes, tape, cuffs or other bondage gear as Swami may see fit. If she feels threatened or feels extremely uncomfortable while in such a position, she may use her privileges under 24) to stop any action by Swami immediately (Punishment for violation: Level 2)

22. Daasi will remember that she is a cultured woman at all times and will behave accordingly. She will not cuss, yell, gesture crudely unless she is engaged in sex with Swami or he expressly requires her to do so. When she laughs she will cover her mouth, she will sit at the edge of her seat with a straight back and always appear demure and coy (Punishment for violation: Level 2)

23. Daasi will remember that how she looks tells on her Swami's reputation so will always take care to dress up well, color and style her hair appropriately, paint her nails, wear pleasing jewelry, put on makeup and use mouthwash, deodorant and cologne at all times. She will strive to look her best when she is in public at all times unless she has expressly asked for and received permission to not follow these steps from Swami (Punishment for violation: Level 2)

24. Daasi will only wear dresses and undergarments that Swami wishes her to wear when they go out in public. (Punishment for violation: Level 2)

25. Daasi will follow all orders from her Swami at all times. Punishments are non- negotiable. If Daasi refuses her punishment after a violation then Swami reserves the right to banish her from his presence and their bedroom for up to five days and stop talking and communicating with her for as many days as he sees appropriate. This is Swami's nuclear option and when he invokes it, Daasi must comply without exceptions.

26. Daasi can use her SAFE WORD at any time to stop any practice. Once Daasi uses her SAFE WORD  Swami will stop said activity immediately and enquire about Daasi's state of mind and will not try and force or pressure her to continue with said activity.  This is her nuclear option. Daasi must use it only when she is under severe duress. Daasi's safe word is XXXXXXX

ARTICLE 6: CONDUCT EXPECTATIONS for Swami

These are rules of conduct expected from Swami .

1.     Swami will make the health and safety of Daasi a priority at all times

2.     Swami will not behave rudely or humiliate Daasi in public unless part of a play exercise that has been agreed to mutually

3.     Swami will not lose his temper with Daasi and not withstanding punishments will not physically or mentally abuse her in a way that will break her spirit or violate the spirit of this contract.

4.     Swami acknowledges that Daasi has surrendered her will to him willingly and in doing so is placing her trust and well-being in his hands. He will earn that trust every day and will not take it for granted.

5.     Swami will strive to satisfy through his use of dominance the deep sexual and emotional cravings of his Daasi

6.     Swami will always hear Daasi's requests and grievances patiently and will not judge her or get irritated with her for expressing her feelings

7.     Swami will express his love and appreciation for his Daasi often

8.     Swami will not say and do things that make his Daasi feel that she is being an unworthy Daasi unless it is part of mutually approved play

9.     Swami will praise his Daasi when she is being an obedient submissive Daasi or serves her Swami in a way that makes him happy and proud that he is her Swami

10. Swami will not engage in any play that leaves permanent scars on Daasi's body because her body is his and it is his duty to protect it from harm

11. Swami promises to take care of his health thru exercise and good eating habits since his life is important to his Daasi and his family

ARTICLE 7 :Long Term Contract and Agreements

Section One: This contract will have an initial trial period for 2 months from the date of signing. Then the contract can be renewed for two trial periods of four months and 6 months respectively if both Swami and Daasi agree.

Section Two: Once the trial period of one year has passed, and Daasi re-signs the contract she acknowledges that this contract is for LIFE. She will at that time have given her mind, body, heart, and free will over to her Swami to own, possess, control, and do with as HE sees fit until her dying day. Her very life will be put into his hands. He will protect her, love her, cherish her, and she will be his best friend till death.

Section Three: Swami and Daasi both solemnly swear never to cheat or be unfaithful to each other in their marriage.

Section Four: Swami acknowledges that Daasi is a deeply religious, faith loving and spiritual person and promises not to try and de-convert her, ridicule her beliefs in any way or give her any orders that will compel her to abandon her faith or her religious beliefs. Daasi also acknowledges that Swami is a skeptic and will not force her beliefs and view points on him. She can request him  to participate in religious activities as a favor to her and must accept his decision to either participate or not participate gracefully

SWAMI SIGNITURE_________   Daasi SIGNITURE_________

DATE _______